Hello
Deana,
After reading
the dark bio of your dad by a guy I can't remember, I thought, "The
wonderful, man I watched every week could NOT have been that
sad and empty. I so wished that someone who really knew him and
loved him could tell me what he was like. Many thanks to you
and your brother Ricci for doing just that. Mainly, I just wanted
to thank you, but since I have your ear, here's a question. Has
your relationship with Jeanne suffered any after your book?
Thanks again!
Julie Sloan
Hello Julie,
My
mother Jeanne is my rock. We are very close and I try to speak
with her daily. She is the smartest and classiest lady I have
ever known. Thank you for the kind words.
Deana
Hi Deana,
Could you please
answer a question many people are asking over here in the UK?
Your father is singing a song with Helen O’Connell named
'How do you like your eggs in the morning?' it features in a TV
add 'Breakfast in New York' advertising Tropicana orange juice.
The name of the record and any other info would be most welcome.
Thanks, Regards,
Brian Sheen (Chester UK)
Hi Brian,
The
song you are looking for can be found on a CD Titled: Dean
Martin His Greatest Hits and Finest Performances: The Capitol
Years: (Disc 2).
Deana
Hello,
Deana,
No real question
here, just hoping you'd enjoy my sharing something. I made your
grandmother's pasta fagioli for lunch over the weekend, and my
family & I enjoyed it very much. It's even better the next
day.
THAT was so
much fun that for dinner, we tried the barbecued steaks with
olive oil that Ricci described in his book.
It was a kick
to enjoy lunch and dinner with the Martins. Many thanks to both
you & Ricci for sharing your memories with us. Your books
are both very special. I've been enjoying your Dad's work for
pretty much my whole life, and it's a true privilege to look
into your hearts.
Hope this note
finds you very well.
Bruce
Hello Deana,
I enjoyed reading
your remarkable story. It was both uplifting and very emotional.
My heart went out to all of you, but especially your mother Betty.
She never recovered from the divorce or her alcohol abuse. That
is very sad!
I was thrilled
to hear that Jeanne took the three of you in and made you her
own, however I felt sorry for Craig not being apart of your father's
home. According to what I could make from your book, he grew
up separated from the rest of you. I understand he was older
and set with school, etc...But he seemed to be the black sheep
of the family. Was that true or was he more involved in your
lives? I know this wasn't his story, but my question is...did
he ever develop a relationship with his/your dad?
I've had the
pleasure to work with his wife, Donna Martin and was very happy
to be on their Christmas card list. Several times I had to phone
Donna on business and Craig answered. He sounded so much like
your father it was amazing. Would you agree?
I've been a
fan of Martin & Lewis, old Hollywood and the songs of that
era as long as I could remember. I want to thank you for allowing
me to walk in your shoes and sharing apart of this magical generation.
God bless you
and your family.
Lois
P.S. I'm now
reading Tina Sinatra's book.
Hello
Lois,
Craig
and dad had a wonderful relationship. As a matter of fact,
Craig was, for many years, the associate producer of the Dean
Martin show.
Deana
Dear Deana,
I just finished
reading your book for the second time. What a beautiful tribute
from a loving daughter. Somehow I have a hard time describing
your Dad's allure, but it is like a magnet that pulls me in.
My 12-year-old daughter had international week at her middle
school recently, and when they honored Italy, they played Dean
Martin songs. She said, "Mom, I knew every song thanks to
you." Glad to hear your mom Jeanne and you still have a
close relationship. But mostly happy that you turned out to be
such a happy, well adjusted woman given your childhood struggles.
God Bless you and your family and thanks for sharing your dad with
his adoring fans.
Lori Stoddard
Hi Deana,
I have loved
Hollywood or Bust forever, starring the two famous guys in show
business. Times have changed and movies aren't the same. I really
missed that because I was born in 59". How many kids do
you have, and what are their names?
Sincerely,
A. L. Kolakowski
Hi A. L.,
We
have one very handsome and talented son named Mickey.
Deana
Hello Deana,
I am a huge
fan of your father's at only 23. I first discovered your father's
music about 3 or 4 years ago. There are only two entertainers
that I ever felt an instant connection to. Your father being
one and Elvis Presley being the other. As far as I'm concerned,
you could get rid off all the music in the world as long as you
don't take away Elvis and Dean Martin. That's how strongly I
feel about those two. I just have to say one thing. On the
"Live and Swingin'" DVD there is the most beautiful version
of your father singing "Everybody Loves Somebody" that
I have ever heard. Of Course he had to have some jokes squeezed
in, :) but that made it all the more better. I only heard about
your book about a month ago. I bought it, but unfortunately, I
haven't read it yet. I have read the forward by Jerry Lewis. Maybe
I'm crazy, but that made me cry. If the forward of a book can make
me cry, then the book itself has to be really amazing!! Anyway,
I bought two copies of the book, one for a friend of mine, an Elvis
performer, who I wanted to give this book to as a gift. Every year,
since I heard about the Dean Martin Festival, including this year,
either school or work has kept me away. Nothing is stopping me
from going next year and I am going next year for the first time.
I saw that you were having a book signing at the festival this
year. Since I cannot make it to the festival, I was wondering that
if I sent the books to you, if you would be able to sign them for
me? If so, what is the address I can send the books to?
Sincerely,
Brenda Nies
Hello Brenda,
In
what part of the country do you reside? I am on a nationwide
tour with the book and could possibly be in your area sometime
soon. Please let me know and what ever it takes…I am
happy to autograph your book. All the best.
Deana
Hello Deana,
I was wondering
what Dean was like as a father? Also I would like to know if
you had a good relationship with him?
Veronica
Hello Veronica,
I had
a spectacular relationship with my father. All of your questions
are answered in my book, ‘Memories Are Made Of This.’
Deana
Dear Deana,
Just wanted
to let you know that I really enjoyed your book. Also, I discovered
that you can buy Faberge Woodhue cologne on eBay!
Carol
Hi Deana,
What was Dean
like in person?
Danial
Hello Danial,
He
was wonderful. Just exactly as he appeared to be on his television
show.
Deana
Dear Deana,
I would love
to have a copy of a painting of your Father, smoking, that appears
at the end of the Variety show DVD's sold by Gunthy-Renker. Do
you have any idea how I could find a copy.
Your father
meant everything to me and I would like to have it on my wall
in my office.
Thanks
Keith George
Hi Keith,
That
painting was made from a photograph taken by the world famous
photographer and a gentleman I was proud to call my friend,
Sid Avery. You can find his work at MPTV, Motion Picture Television
Archive, 818-997-8292 http://www.mptv.net/main/main_elements/mainpage.htm
Deana
Dear Deana,
My daughter is now age 34 and I named her after your Dad and spell
her name exactly like yours. I have always been a fan of your Dad's
and I have just completed reading your book. EXCELLENT!
Do you ever appear with your brother Ricci during his shows as
we are attending his 4/16/05 show at the Sands in Atlantic City?
Do you ever expect to perform yourself in Jersey or New York?
Thanks Deana.
Your new friend,
Joe Kreher
Hell Joe,
I was
on a concert tour in April. Ricci and I have not performed
together, as of yet, but the combination of our two shows would
probably be a knock out. And yes I have pending plans to perform
in New York in December. I will post the information on my
web site when it is confirmed.
Deana
Hello Deana,
I have just
finished reading "Memories are made if this". I heard
it mentioned on a local radio station in Sydney Australia where
I live and found it was not available in the bookshops here so
I purchased it from Amazon. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I remember,
as a child sitting with my family watching "The Dean Martin
Show" my parents loved watching his show. The radio station
that I now listen to play "easy listening music" and
Dean music sure fits that bill. Your book was very enlightening
and I am glad you have found peace in knowing that your father
was loved by so many. I lost my father in 1998 his birthday was
9 June.
Good luck in all your future ventures.
Cheers
Gwen
Deana,
What was your
father's favorite song and what song was your favorite that he
sang to you? I haven’t read your book yet so if it’s
in your book my apologies!!
Thanks.
Nick Giurleo
Hello Nick,
There
are so many of my father’s songs that I love so this
is a very difficult question. ‘I Will” is certainly
at the top of he list.
Deana
Deana,
Can you tell
me where I can purchase photos of your dad?
Bob DeSaro
Hello Bob,
My
favorite place is the Motion Picture Television Achieve. Their
telephone number and Internet address are as follows: 818-997-8292
http://www.mptv.net/main/main_elements/mainpage.htm
Deana
Dear Deana,
Thank you for
the insightful, wonderful book. It must have been both joyful
and sad writing about Dad, yourself and the family.
I met you at
a book signing in Sarasota, Fl. You signed the book "to
George, Dad's biggest fan" My wife Judy told you how I walked
the floor with each of our three boys listening to Dad's beautiful
baritone voice that was so soothing to the children and myself
and I was always able get them to sleep!
Deana, thank you for sharing your bittersweet memories, you put
together a lifetime of family life and did it wonderfully.
Hope to see
you soon.
Sincerely
George Aquila
Hi George,
I remember
meeting you in Sarasota. It was a pleasure. Thanks for the
kind words and give my best to your wife Judy.
Deana
Deana,
Thank you for
the book you wrote about your wonderful dad. At Patsy’s
in NY, everyone stops me & tells me I look just like your
dad. I also perform on stage as Dino. I would like to send you
some pictures of myself so that you can see if I do or not.
Mercurio Caronia
Hi Mercurio,
Patsy’s
is one of my favorite restaurants. I never miss going there
while in New York. If you want to know if you look like my
father, just ask Joe or Sal Scognamillo.
Deana
Hello,
I’m from
Germany and my question is, whether this book will be translated
in German??
I hope so!
Greetings,
Ninscha
Hello Ninscha,
I hope
so too. My publisher in England is Pan Macmillan, 20 New Wharf
Road, London N1 9RR. Their Internet address is: http://www.panmacmillan.com/.
They are handling the international sales…why don’t
you drop them a line.
Deana
Dear Deana,
I just read
your book and Ricci's. Since I bought the Dean Martin tape set
of his show, I've been going through a real bittersweet emotional
roller coaster. I love the tape as does my mother, but the realization
of Dean's departure saddens me. And yet all things come to an
end. I will get out to one of your celebrations of his life in
Steubenville, Ohio. I owe it to him for all the amazing entertainment
he gave us. I really mean that! I have come to realize that he
was ultimately the greatest entertainer that lived, bar none.
I'm not just saying it. I lost my father at 79 after many mini
strokes. He traveled the world, and made a small fortune, but
like Dean he was surrounded by those who loved him. I'm proud
of you getting your pilots license and I'm sure that Dean Paul
looked after you on your solo. Have you seen Always??? If not
please do. As a fellow private pilot I get choked up when I see
it. I'm also happy that Ricci gave further details on how Dean
Paul died...trying not to endanger innocent people. He did what
all good pilots do…and that is to minimize risk to others.
Thank you for
your book. I sent a note to Ricci asking him to share my emotions
with the rest of the family. I'll never be the same after seeing
those wonderful tapes.
I now play many of Dean's favorite songs on the piano and think
of the tape of his 1983 concert in England. You have wet eyes seeing
the pro still have it.. When he honored Ronald Reagan calling him
Clutch ... and singing to him Mr. Wonderful. How can you not get
choked up? Seeing him dance with Juliet Prouse in that routine.
No one has ever come close to what he accomplished. One day maybe
they will have tapes of Dean and Perry Como. They must have done
a duet.
Bless you and
your family,
Joseph Rene Dupont
PS.
I'd love to see that ad he did looking up from the papers.
It must have been precious.
Joe
Hi Joe,
I loved
the movie ‘Always’. And you’re right Joe,
I’m certain my brother Dean-Paul was looking after me
on my solo flights…and still is. Thank you for your
wonderful letter.
Deana
Hi Deana,
I think your
dad was one of the greatest entertainers who ever lived, the
first time I seen his show was in Las Vegas in 1976 at the MGM.
My wife and I were on our honeymoon that year and I Made sure
that we had front row seats that evening because we just didn't
want to hear Dean we wanted to see Dean. We have been married
now for 29 years and we still talk about that evening at the
MGM...When he touched my wife’s hand that night I thought
that she was going to faint, he was always my idol. I do a tribute
to him in my shows, yes Deana I'm a part time entertainer. I
do a tribute to Dean, Frank and Sammy in my act. I do other legends
to, like Elvis, Bobby Darin, Louis Armstrong, Jerry Lewis and
some times Al Jolson. I remember your dad singing like Jolson
on his T.V. show back in the 1960's,it was great when Dean's
song-Everybody Loves Somebody-was number 1 on the charts passing
up the Beatles. I believe it was 1964 or 1965. Well Deana, I
have great memories of your dad; he was a big part of my life.
So remember everybody loves somebody and I love all of you...I
hope I here from you soon.
Thanks for
listening.
Angelo"Packy"Ciaravino.
Hi Deana:
I just finished "Memories
are made of this"
last night. I read the entire book in less than 24 hours, as I
couldn't put it down. I am an avid reader of biographies and this
is my all time favorite, and the first book that has brought tears
to my eyes.
I wanted to
let you know that when I was a kid I wrote to your dad to tell
him how much I enjoyed his televised
"roasts". I was thrilled when a month or so later, I
received an autographed picture in the mail. It is currently framed
and has a place of honor in my home.
My question
to you is have you read the description of your Dad's reunion
with Jerry Lewis at the 1976 telethon that Tony Orlando writes
about in his autobiography
"Halfway to Paradise"? Tony wrote that your father wasn't
all that happy about being pushed into the reunion by Mr. Sinatra
and walked off the stage after it was over. Again, I was only a
kid but I remember watching that telethon and thinking that your
Dad didn't look very happy to be there at the time. Can you give
any more insight into the reunion?
Thanks again
for a wonderful book.
Jim Cegielski
Dear Deana,
I was looking
over the website for Dean's hometown in Ohio, I am a Big Gone
With the Wind fan and travel to Cadiz every year for the annual
birthday celebration. It is only about 20-30 miles away from
Steubenville, I cannot believe all this time there have been
these events and I never knew about them. I loved Dean and Jerry,
I hated it so bad when they stopped working together and all
the rumors of their bitter split were flying around.
I would love to come up some time for one of these events ...I
just read today that this year's event will be held June 17 & 18,
I am not sure I will be able to do that but I am looking into it.
I would like to know...I saw that you had a new book out and would
be doing a book signing...did I read it correctly that it would
be at a Kroger store?
Will they be selling your book there?
I think it is so wonderful that you travel out there for these
events.
I hope to meet you some day.
Sincerely,
Patrisha
Hello Patrisha,
I will
be doing book signings at Krogers and the Dean Martin Festival
in Steubenville and at the Mountaineer Resort in Chester, WV.
I look forward to seeing you there.
Deana
Dear Deana,
I can't begin
to tell you how much I adored and still do adore your father.
I grew up on Dean Martin. Every week we would all sit and watch
his show and even though I was very young my heart always throbbed
just to see him. I am 54 and still listen to his music and always
did. They just don't make music like he use to do. Just wanted
to say he is very missed by me and I have a room in my house
with all pictures of him. He was the "greatest".
Angela Barchi
Dear Deana,
Many thanks
for the lovely flowers you gave to us at the King Center Wed
night. We gave the roses to Tom's 88-year-old mother who adored
your father and she was thrilled. Thanks again and we look forward
to seeing once more in Melbourne - we'll definitely plan for
better weather for you next time.
Terrie
& Tom Franco (Green Room Waiters)
Hi Deana,
Is Ricci's
name pronounced Richie or Ricky? Is his given name Rico or Ricci?
Sometimes in your book, your dad calls him Rico and otherwise
it's Ricci?
You have a
really wonderful husband!
Karen Johnson
Hello Karen,
My
brother’s name is pronounced Ricky and his given name
is Ricci James Martin. And thank you for your kind words about
my husband. I am truly blessed.
Deana
Deana,
I finished
the book, a great read about a great guy. I live in England and
would like you to sign my book. What address should I send it
to? Better still…come to the UK for a book signing.
Lenny Gamblin
Hello Lenny,
I will
be coming to England the end of this year and I’ll be
happy to sign your book. I look forward to seeing you then.
Deana
Dear Deana,
I just started
reading your book and I'm having a hard time getting past the
pictures. Its like looking at my own father, whose resemblance
to your father was STRIKING. When I was a young girl in the early
60's my friends used to come visit and ask, "is your dad
Dean Martin?" And I’d proudly respond "yes".
My dad sang, looked, and acted like your dad. When he passed
away in March 03 listening to Dean Martin is like listening to
him. I’m curious, I saw the name Ellis in your introduction
of your book and I was wondering is that a relative? My father’s
mother’s family is Ellis. Just wondering, maybe the resemblance
wasn’t just coincidence.
My daughter just got married in August, and all the music was
Dean Martin. ‘Sweet sweet, the memories you gave to me....
thank you.
Sincerely,
Cheryll Masciotra
Hi Deana,
I just wanted
to let you know I've read your book and it is so wonderful. You
are so fabulous. At my wedding all I played was dean martin music,
I've grown up listening to him. My grandpa used to sing dean
martin to us as children and Dean's music will forever hold a
special place in my heart. Just a couple months before I got
married my grandpa died, and listening to dean martin brings
him back to life for me. Thank you so much for your beautifully
written book.
Love,
Lyndsey Hoyle
Dear Deana,
I am 45 years
old and ever since I was a teenager (12) I loved your father…his
singing, his acting and his great looks. That love never died
and I still play his music in the car, at home and at the radio
station I work at as a hobby. At the station I always get lots
of response to his music from my older listeners. I would love
to have the book you wrote about your father. Do you know if
it is for sale in Holland?
Thank you for keeping the memory of this fantastic man alive.
Love,
Rina from the Netherlands
Hello Rina,
Thanks
for playing my father’s music and for your kind words.
My book is available in most countries but I am not certain
if it is available in Holland…yet! However, it is readily
available online.
Deana
Dear Deana,
I have always
loved your father and grew up with him I am now 63 and My question
is can you tell me your fathers real name I belong to a music
group and would love to answer it
Thank you so
much,
Marlene
Hi Marlene,
My
father’s real name is Dino Paul Crocetti
Deana
Dear Deana,
I just finished
your book, “Memories Are Made Of This,”
and thoroughly enjoyed you sharing those private moments about
your mom, dad, and Jeanne, and your whole family.
‘For Your Love’ was and is a favorite song of mine.
Did your beautiful mom ever receive recognition for that or any
financial reimbursement? God bless your mom. My heart ached for
her.. I would appreciate your answer Deana.
A fan of your
dad's, and your mom's.
Marlene Shusta
Hello
Marlene,
‘For
Your Love’ is a beautiful song and no she did not receive
the recognition that she so aptly deserved. Thank you for your
kind thoughts.
Deana
Dear Deana,
Thank you again
for your support and Kindness to Chase Vaccaro and Us in Steubenville,
We had planned to see you in Clearwater Fl. but our schedule
changed. Hope you will come to Tampa in the near future, Chase
sends regards.
Best wishes
to you,
Larry and Sandy Feldman
Deana,
What is the
title of the number (duet with???) that goes like: ‘How
do you like your eggs in the morning?.......I like the mine with
a kiss’?? Please help, I love that number.
Stefan
Hello
Stefan,
The
title is ‘How D’Ya Like Your Eggs In The Morning?’ and
he sang it with Helen O’Connell.
Deana
Hello Deana,
I’m a
quite a new Dean Martin fan (about 5-6 yrs since I got a cd bought
for me one Xmas) and have since become fascinated by the man
as many have no doubt! I am converting the unknown into Dean
Martin fans at family parties get togethers etc. I had your book
bought for me at Xmas & Michael Freeland’s recently
too! I found your book fascinating & slightly heartbreaking
that you didn’t get as much time with your father as you
would have liked! Would u rather he wasn’t so famous so
he could’ve spent more time with you or do you feel he
wouldn’t have been the man he was? I hope you don’t
find this too personal a question.
Many thanks,
Paul Byrne from England
Hello Deana!
I’m a
huge fan of your father and I would like to know if he had a
favorite whisky brand and when which one this was??
Thanks and
greetings from Germany
Oliver Schmid
Hello Oliver,
J
& B Scotch… which he jokingly said, stood for Just Booze.
Deana
Dear Deana,
I grew up in
the British colony of Rhodesia, now Zimbabwe in Africa, I am
50 years old and just want to say that Dean had a huge following
throughout Africa then and now and we used to see his movies
and "The Dean Martin Show". I am half Italian and love
Dean's Italian songs.
Here are a couple of things that I would like to know.
Has Dean been
to Africa?
Has he met Al Jolson and Guy Mitchell?
Is there any statue or plaque devoted to him in the Abruzzi? If
there isn't there should be.
Dean is like
a relative to me and millions of others and he lives on and is
with us everyday in film and song.
Thank you Deana.
Ken Pearson
Hi Ken,
No,
my father did not visit Africa. Yes, he did meet Al Jolson
and I am not certain about Guy Mitchell. There is a plaque
and a Piazza in my father’s name in Montesilvano, Italy,
which is in the Province of Pescara.
Deana
Hi Deana,
Dino had made
a poster (l’il Old Wine Drinker Me) where the bottles in
the poster a production run?
Scott Shaw
Hello Scott,
Yes,
they were.
Deana
Deana,
Are Dean Martin's
Concerts available on DVD or Video? If so, where can I find them?
Sarah
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